Smile. You have to think about yourself too, not others. Just, focus on yourself than anyone else.

But, don't make others feel hurt by what you are saying. And, the hurters, don't feel hurt and get angry because Allah wants you to change.

If he said you are annoying as jerk, please. Don't let out your angriness.(?) Because what he was saying is a key to your life. It'll make your life better.

And, please accept it and change your attitude.